Monday, September 27, 2010

Attempt to Understand

I've been thinking a lot about why I keep allowing unnecessary things happen to me; specifically things that don't bring me happiness. Am I really strong or just foolish? I guess I AM stupid for love. I didn't understand what that meant when that was said to me. How can someone be stupid for my love? Well, I guess now I understand. I do stupid things just for a taste of "your" love.

I guess I'm truly a stubborn person. I don't like to give up. But I guess sometimes it's not such a bad idea to give up.

I don't like this instability and it's been a common theme in some of my relationships.

I feel blessed and not so blessed at the same time. Isn't that funny?

So I have a couple of questions that maybe those of you who read my blogs can help me to answer.

1. How do you help someone to grow? What does it mean to have a growth-filled relationship?
2. Do you agree with the saying "better to have something, than nothing at all"?

I have more questions. I just don't know how to phrase them yet. So, for now, that's it.

Anyway, I better pay attention in class.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

i think that with stubborn people, you have to let them learn for themselves because no matter what you do or try, nothing will work unless this stubborn person decides to make that change.

no need for someone to go through that frustration when nothing you do can help that person open their eyes to other things. it will just put a strain on your relationship with that person. at least that's what i think.

Quyen [Nhi] said...

let's chat when we both have a chance soon... dinner?